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BJ's ANSWER;

There can be several explanations to this phenomena. You may live in an old house or a new house built on an area that once had a house in or near, the same foundation as your present house. In this case there could have been a living person, who possibly came home from work at 1:40AM every night, and has left an etheric imprint, upon the atmosphere of your home area. This is like a 'picture negative' where energy from an event, has been played so many times, that the etheric realm has recorded this event, and it may continue to play over and over again. This is a past event  in Time. Time is another Dimensional Space. We are only observing a progression of Time, here on Earth, for this is the only place, that Time, as we know it, exists. 

In this case, what is known as a Time Bleed, may be happening in your particular area, and you are only experiencing another dimensional event. 

Although this may be frightening,  it does not necessarily mean you are experiencing Ghosts or Sprits, as many believe. Many Time Bleeds, in my experience, simply disappear one day! 

Other events such as this, are seen because a certain person, such as yourself, may be experiencing high emotion, which may effect the chemicals of the brain. Some psychics believe this is how they are able to 'see' into other dimensional realities. By training yourself to seek calm and peaceful surroundings, one may find relief from such phenomena. Prayer or meditation seems to help. In severe cases calming prescribed medication may help. 

In my experience, it is rare that any such phenomena will harm someone physically. Our state of mind is most important! I also suspect through my research, that projected holograms are used on many people around the world, in experiments done by very real factions. This however, is not what I believe is happening to you, from the information you have given me. 

Hope this helps.

	Question;                                      Once, when I was attempting to quit smoking. I was taking zyban . I have always known, diagnosed or not, that I was a depressive. In taking this medication I found that it moved me to begin thinking of life in new, more positive, ways. I was writing some of my best poetry and was forming a more confident self-image. I began to stay up later and later, writing more and more poetry, excerpts, short stories etc. It got to the point where everything seemed to be of a deeply spiritual nature. It was very enjoyable at first. Then, I began to not sleep at all, I could not sleep a wink. I would hear noises when drawing a bath, sounds that, at the time, I was convinced were demons. Every night I spent like this was driving me more and more "insane". In attempting to sleep shapes and colors would form, mostly purple...I couldn't sleep because of these images, they would not cease. Then the weirdest thing happened. It was 200 am, the shapes and colors were still there, and my eyes began to move rapidly, as though I were experiencing REM while awake. Suddenly, it felt like I was really, really someplace else. There was darkness. There appeared two crystals, seemingly made of laser-like beams. The left one, red, the right one, blue. They were spinning, giving off a "crystalline" sound. It honestly seemed as though some great transition had occurred within my mind and soul. The experience lasted what seemed five seconds or less and it was suddenly 500 am, as though absolutely no time had passed. These crystals, though lasting only five seconds, have existed in my mind for years as the apex of anything I have ever witnessed. I know this sounds strange, but this really happened to me and I would like to know if anyone else has experienced anything like this, how it felt, exactly what happened, and your thoughts on my experience. If you would like any clarification about certain aspects of my experience etc.
BJ's Answer;
		I have read your question before but only now decided to answer, as I have found where I read an account of crystal structures. In the book 'The Andreasson Affair, Betty Andreasson describes an Alien abduction, where she remembers traveling to a different realm. She saw crystal structures that hung in the air, and reflected a rainbow of colors. She saw different sizes and shapes and passed through them, somehow. She also saw pyramids with faces upon them, but she said the faces were of a male/female type face, with aspects of both gender. She also seemed to be traveling upon a walkway, at some point and this reminded me of the walkway that was described in a Mary Summer Rain book, where this author described an out of body experience, with her spiritual teacher, No Eyes. This I believe was called, the Time Corridor, where one can step off into certain times, as well as other dimensions, and other humanoid planets. I just thought you might be interested, as your experience is quite fantastic! I would like to hear more, anytime. Sincerely, BJ
	Follow-up Question : The experience I had was very simple, but "elegant". The crystals were there only a few seconds, and there was simply darkness. The crystals weren't whole, they were just vivid edge lines, like lasers, on a background of darkness. They spun before my eyes giving off a sound that was "crystal". The one on the left was red, whereas the one on the right was blue.. Besides just this, which was the high-point, I also saw dots of color in the darkness. There were so many colors, just flowing around and forming blotches of purple. They would expand and contract. I soon found that I could concentrate and make them "behave". Then I would hear popping and crackling, inside my head, like my brain was overloading, and connecting new thoughts and ideas. Soon my eyes began going all over, my eyelids fluttering, and I went into the crystal experience. It was like Heaven somehow, a freedom, a simple, meaningful thing, full of beauty, and elegance. I felt like I was dreaming, although awake, through the entire experience (2-3 months). I even had nightmares While awake! I'd be afraid to go into the hallway, as it felt like there were forces, demons, trying to capture me. There was this sound like I was going to be enveloped by a darkness, a darkness I wanted to experience. Something so fearful, it made me feel more alive, more within reality.
BJ's Response;
		I have learned, from a time in my life where I could not sleep, that when the body is sleep deprived, the sleep 'session' simply takes over. I believe that our so called dreams, are a way for us to go back to our 'natural' state, upon the astral plain of reality. We do this every night, so as to be released from our duty upon Earth, even for a little while. Most of us forget, just as if we were born again into another lifetime, or as some have explained, we drink from the river of forgetfulness, once again. I feel it is a 'need' we must fulfill, each day, or we cannot be refreshed enough, to tackle the human condition. Possibly, you have been traveling to another realm, just as you would if you were sleeping. Instead, as you could not sleep, your astral body, simply took off, leaving your biological body, still awake. I also feel that without this astral travel every night, our bodies cannot heal properly. Without this 'sleep' we cannot think clearly, as the connection to mind and brain, is weak. The true self, seems to take over for our survival, escaping the biological body, anyway it can. Just another thought. Sincerely, BJ

Hi,          I see ghosts and I've asked questions about them. I don't know what to do because I'm becoming more and more scared of being in dark places, because it is then, that I am able to see ghosts, most often. Every time I go into a dark hallway, or any place that is in almost total darkness, I cover my eyes, and I get really panicked and scared. My question is;  If there is some way that I can overcome being scared of those moments, so that I can stop worrying about stumbling upon a dark area. Any help would be great. Thanks :)

BJ's Answer:  Hello,    I, at one time, had great difficulty being in the dark spaces, as I did not know as much about spirits, as I do today. I have learned that we are usually surrounded by spirits, day and night, at any given time, and they do not have any control over a person who does not wish for this, for the most part. Spirits are not allowed to interfere with the living, unless, they are asked.    We sensitive, sometimes see a spirit, but this is not the same as communicating with them. Most of the time, spirits are not even aware that we can see them. They are not around us, for any particular reason. Mostly, they are simply going about their daily activities, and Yes, we do live on in Spirit.     This may not be a comfort to you, but please remember that Nothing can harm you, in my opinion when it comes to the Spirit World, if you do not wish it. The only harm that can be done is by your own fear! Even when I see a television program such as Scariest Places On Earth, where they show a family, going into a so called haunted location, the families are mostly afraid of their own fear! I have yet to actually 'see' anything paranormal going on, in any of these shows. The people are simply scaring themselves! What has been said many times before; You have nothing to fear but fear itself. I also found that praying for protection and help from God, was always a great comfort and also by imagining a Golden orb surrounding you at these times, acts as a sort of screen, of protection, if needed. On another note, the so called 'Spirits' that we've come to know, seem to be mere reflections on an infinite dimensional space. One space or dimension may be observed, on rare occasions, causing the observer to think they are seeing a ghost! I do not at this time, believe that we are actually seeing the so called dead. We seem to be seeing certain People, as they exist in another dimensional space. On even more rare occasions, they seem to be seeing us! Sincerely, BJ

Question;

How do you keep Spirits from showing up anytime of the day or night, if you are a Psychic or an ESP Experiencer?

BJ's Response;

 I can honestly say, that this indeed has been a problem I have had to deal with all my life. It can be most unnerving, when upon awakening, you have the image of a Person standing over you! One never gets over this kind of fright, but I have learned new ways to manage this frightening experience. Just like the movie, 'The Sixth Sense' as the child in the movie, sees so called, Dead People at any time of the day or night, this is a true picture of what many ESP Experiencers, go through. I did not find it horrible as a child, because many images of strange entities, seemed good and kind and not troublesome at all. I simply did not attract gruesome looking entities. Later, when I was told by the one Church, that this sort of experience, was the 'Work of The Devil', I began to experience horror, as I became frightened. The more frightened I became, the more horrible the vision, I was to see! After many years of needed study, I finally began to find peace once again. Peace in the 'Knowing' that no Evil could enter my world, unless I lost my faith in the protection of God! I feel it was a horrible thing that happened at this Church! The Church took an innocent child, who had nothing to fear of the spirit world, and turned her into a weak, frightened, and mixed up little girl. The church is supposed to be a place of comfort and saving grace, but too much talk of the so called 'Devil' changes the heart of the innocent! After, I learned not to fear again, I realized that Spirits or entities that exist in light frequencies that our human eyes cannot comprehend, gather around all of us much of the time. They are not here to harm us and most seem less interested in us as people but rather are somewhat interested,  in our experience. If I do not want to 'see' images in daylight hours, I simply speak out loud, to the entities, explaining that I appreciate their caring and watching over me, but I do not want to see anyone showing up in full view! I ask then to come to me, instead, in the form of a dream or as I like to call it, "Dream Time'. There I am more able to speak with the entities, and have made many friends upon 'The Other Side'. If one is still worried about 'Ghostly' visitors, I always suggest leaving an electrical fan running in the bedroom at night. One may also keep on a small night light, even the plug-in kind, and this also helps one not to bump into anything, when getting up during the night. I also have a television in my room. I feel the electricity somehow disrupts the energy, that is used somehow, to manifest views of what some term, 'The Other Side'. If one is really frightened at night, I also suggest leaving on a small television, with the volume on low, during the night. Peace of mind means more than an electric bill. After awhile, one usually become more comfortable, and may only need a small fan on, at night.

Question;

   Is there a curse on my family or on me as an individual? If so, please help me straighten this matter out.

BJ's Answer;

  Many times people believe they have been cursed, when in fact, it is the attitude they, themselves, have taken upon themselves and the family, that has returned as a so called 'curse'. When my husband is not appreciative of his work and all the gifts that come with his business, he takes on a gloomy attitude. This in turn, brings his fear to life, and next he isn't doing so well. This then, leads him to believe that he was 'Right all along' and he continues to use this as an excuse, for doing poorly, until I have to tell him to, 'Snap Out Of It!'. As soon as I explain, once again, that 'Thoughts Are Things', and he could only make his life better if he would look on the bright side! He then tries, thinking Positive, and soon his business is doing better than ever! Nothing that another does, can harm you, if 'You Do Not Believe It Will!'

QUESTION;

I've watched several discovery channel shows proving that paranormal does not exist. Like ghosts are hallucinations brought about by certain frequency waves induced in the head, and ghost pictures (orbs, etc.) being just camera defects or lighting effects, and near-death experiences being just the brain flooding with info when near death. So what is real?

BJ'S ANSWER;

The opinion of the Scientific Community changes with every new 'Discovery'. This is copied from www.unknowncountry.com, as seen below;


Near Death Experiences Taken Seriously by Science
26-Dec-2001

After years of ridicule and denial, scientists and doctors are finally beginning to take near death experiences (NDEs) seriously, as shown by a report in the December 15 issue of the respected English medical journal The Lancet.
In a recent study conducted in the Netherlands, Dr. Pim van Lommel and colleagues studied 62 patients who said they had a near-death experience after going into cardiac arrest. They found that factors such as medication and the duration of unconsciousness did not explain the phenomenon. “Our results show that medical factors cannot account for occurrence of near-death experiences,” says van Lommel.

A small number of people who survive life-threatening circumstances report having had “an extraordinary experience,” says van Lommel. These experiences often involve visions of a light or a deceased relative, flashbacks of life events or an out-of-body sensation.

Researchers in the past have dismissed these experiences as being caused by brain cells dying from lack of oxygen. Others point to psychological factors such as fear of death, or to the changing state of consciousness people may go through in a life-threatening condition.

NDE researchers usually ask survivors to tell them about the events long after they occurred. The investigators tried to overcome this problem by interviewing cardiac-arrest survivors within days of being resuscitated and again 2 and 8 years later. In the first interviews, 62 of 344 survivors (18%) reported near-death experiences. All 344 had been clinically dead, meaning they were unconscious due to a lack of blood and oxygen to the brain.

The patients’ near-death experiences varied, with 41 having a deeper experience and the rest reporting more superficial events. Two years later, 6 out of the second group decided they had not had a NDE. But the patients who did have one were able to recall it “almost exactly” 8 years later, the researchers found. In contrast with cardiac arrest survivors who did not have a NDE, they were less afraid of death and had a stronger belief in an after-life. They also were more interested in the meaning of life and in showing love and acceptance to others. However, getting through their hospital experience was much more complicated for NDE patients. Their positive changes were more obvious after eight years than they were after two years.

“The long-lasting transformational effects of an experience that lasts for only a few minutes of cardiac arrest is a surprising and unexpected finding,” says van Lommel. “Society’s negative response to NDE ... leads individuals to deny or suppress their experience for fear of rejection or ridicule. Thus social conditioning causes NDE to be traumatic, although in itself it is not a psychotraumatic experience...Only gradually and with difficulty is an NDE accepted and integrated.”

A nurse said that one patient was in a coma when she removed his dentures. Later the patient identified her as the person who knew where to find his dentures, and he accurately described where they were-- in the drawer of a medical cart. He said he had seen the events from above the hospital bed and watched doctors’ efforts to save his life.

Half the patients said they were aware of being dead, and about one in four had an out-of-body experience. Nearly one in three said they met deceased people. More than one in five said they communicated with light, and nearly a third reported moving through a tunnel. More than one in 10 said they reviewed their lives, and more than one in four said they saw a celestial landscape.

The researchers could not find any clear explanation for why a small percentage of patients had a near-death experience while most did not. If “purely physiological factors” like a cutoff of oxygen to the brain were the cause, most of the study patients should have had an NDE. “We did not show that psychological, neuropsychological, or physiological factors caused these experiences after cardiac arrest,” the researchers say.

Most neuroscientists believe that consciousness is a byproduct of the physical brain, that mind arises from matter. But if near-death experiences are real, this means that people can be conscious of events around them even when they are physically unconscious and their brains do not show signs of electrical activity. How can consciousness be independent of brain function?

“Compare it with a TV” program, says van Lommel. “If you open the TV set you will not find the program. The TV set is a receiver. When you turn off your TV set, the program is still there but you can’t see it. When you [turn] off your brain, your consciousness is there but you can’t feel it in your body.” He says his study suggests that researchers investigating consciousness “should not look in the cells and molecules alone.” Dr. Christopher C. French of the University of London thinks NDEs could be false memories and says, "Recent psychological studies have shown conclusively that simply imagining that one has had experiences that had in fact never been encountered will lead to the development of false memories for those experiences.” He suggests that this may happen due to patients’ natural tendency to try to fill in gaps in their memory caused by their brush with death.

“We have understandable and natural urges to believe we will survive bodily death and we will be reunited with our departed loved ones,” French says. “So anything that would support that idea -- reincarnation, mediums, ghosts -- presents evidence of the survival of the soul. It’s something that we would all desperately like to believe is true.”

Bruce Greyson, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, says that current experiments are being done in which tiny signs are placed on the ceilings of hospital rooms, so that if people are genuinely having out-of- body experiences and hovering over their beds, they will be able to see the signs and provide proof of the phenomenon. “Brain chemistry does not explain these phenomena,” he says. “I don’t know what the explanation is, but our current understanding of brain chemistry falls short.”

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BJ'S ANSWER;

Your son seems to be very gifted, and by letting him know, that this is a natural part of being who he is, he will soon learn that it is OK to be what some know as 'Psychic'. There are many more children arriving upon Earth these days with heightened intuitive abilities. Nurturing his gift, is a great way to help him feel accepted, and to encourage his talents.

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